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 My boyfriend is 22, and is into business with his mother. I love him 2 much sometimes I feel it is not normal and he always tells me he loves me more than I do. Well the problem is he communicates with his ex and it hurts me. He tells me it shouldn't. Am I being fair to him or maybe I should let it rest?
My second question is that he recently traveled and was supposed to come back but did not do so. I was lonely on my birthday -valentines day, he never called or sms and still nothing. Aren't there phones in the Congo? May be I should open my eyes. This is the first time he is doing this. Pliz help me! I miss him and love him too much too crumble. Cheers Connie
Hi Connie, Thanks for writing in. The first thing I would question is the level of communication you and your boyfriend have. What would you give it on a scale of 1 to 10? If you are anything short of 8 out of 10 then you guys are in serious trouble. What does your partner mean when he says he loves you more than you do for instance? There is clearly something unspoken there. Another issue is that if your boyfriend truly knows how you feel about him, he would find a way of getting in touch with you, even by post. There is definitely telecommunications in Congo, even in remote Rwanda I am certain! Thirdly, if your boyfriend knows you are hurt by him communicating with his ex and persists, he is choosing the feelings of his ex girlfriend over yours which makes things even more sticky. Being 22, it could just be immaturity on his part. Ask him how he would feel if you communicated with your ex. Communication, communication, communication! If you two can really talk and be open with one-another, your issues will be a thing of the past. All the best, Shi Mwansa.
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